Saturday, July 19, 2008

The Story of My First Adult Spanking

I don't remember the name of the guy who gave me my first spanking as an adult. I was 23 or so at the time. He was from out of town, in town on business. We had only exchanged a few e-mails when he had his trip into town, but I was desperate for a spanking, so I decided to meet him.

We met in the cafe of the Whole Foods that was close to the hotel he was staying at. We talked a bit. He asked me if I had ever had a real spanking as an adult, or if it had just all been fantasy. Just fantasy except for spanking myself, I told him. He told me that he would spank me with his belt, and that he wouldn't be touching me with his hands anywhere besides my bottom. He asked me if I could be quiet during the spanking because he stayed at the hotel he was in quite often. I assured him that the belt would make more noise than I would.

I followed him back to his hotel room. He gave me the option of starting bare bottom or with my panties up. I was a bit nervous, so I decided to start with my panties up. I dropped my jeans and bent over the desk chair as he told me to. As he was taking off his belt, he said he was going to give me 20 with the belt, and I was going to count each of them. And he reminded me to be quiet. He swung the belt, and holy crap that leather burned. The fire in my bottom built up as he continued the strokes and I counted each one.

After 20, he stopped and asked me if I was ok. I said yes. He asked me if I could take 20 more. I said, "Yes, Sir." So he gave me 20 more strokes with his belt, and again I counted each one. By the end of those, my bottom was really hurting, but I loved it. Each time the belt landed, there was a new explosion of pain in my bottom, especially on the right side, where the end of the belt was landing.

At the end of that set of 20, he asked me again if I was ok. Again, I answered yes. Again he asked me if I could take 20 more, and again I answered "Yes, Sir." He told me to lower my panties. I did, and resumed my place bent over the chair. The first stroke landed. I know those panties weren't much protection, but the bite of that belt on my bare bottom that had already taken 40 hard strokes of his belt made me suck in my breath hard. A few seconds passed before he said, "I didn't hear you count."

I managed to get out a "one" not much louder than a whisper. With each of that last twenty, I struggled to stay in place, but I did. I sucked my breath in through my teeth with each stroke, but I managed to count out each stroke.

When he finshed that 20, he said, "We're done." I thought Thank God! Then he told me that I was too submissive and that I needed professional help! Well, I thought that was just great - I finally found someone who was into the same thing I am, and even he thinks I'm crazy!

But I was already in therapy, and I wasn't about to give up spanking again after finally getting a real life spanking.

Stay tuned for more true stories!

12 comments:

Claire said...

Oh you are so brave for your first spanking! I remember my first spanking after a break of years and it was really hard. I was like a zombie afterwards. Loved the story.

raw.hyde said...

All I can say is "nice".

Actually I can say more but would rather do so in person. Wink.

Our Bottoms Burn said...

"Then he told me that I was too submissive and that I needed professional help!"

The number of idiots never fails to surprise me.

Interesting Blog. Here's to you finding the right man.

Anonymous said...

I remember giving my first spanking as a adult. I was 24 and my GF of 3 months came out that she was a spanko and she wanted a real spanking for her birthday, I mean she wanted a real blistering she hasn't gotten in a few years from her last BF. I wasn't sure what that was so she educated me. She sent me links to stories and videos. We had a long talk about what she meant by a real spanking and I finally conceded to give her one. I tried to scare her out of it at first. I told her if she was serious and I was going to do it, I was going to do it all the the first time. If I was going to give a real spanking it wouldn't stop until I decides its over, no specified number of swats, no safe word as long as she remained in position, and absolutely no protection from the very beginning. She didn't back down and still wanted a real spanking for her birthday. Still trying to scare her out of it, I told her I would be spanking her until she was sobbing. She still wanted it. Well, I never spanked anyone but on her birthday I privately gave her a printed out a personalized gift certificate for one real spanking. She kissed me and waited until the weekend went to her apartment. I got a bammbo backscratcher from the dollar store and I paddled her bare ass hard and fast for a long time until she was carthatic and hicupp sobbing. She thanked me for her birthday gift.

Anonymous said...

Sometimes when my boyfriend starts backing off when I start to struggle feels like counterproductive in discipline punishment style spanking. If it that type of spanking and my boyfriend back off or stops, I feel I’m letting him down even though I have relinquished control of this spanking to him. Sometimes I actual asked for a real no nonsense spanking about every other month or so. I like this power exchange that happens and I feel the of energy and cathartic release from being spanked beyond being able to make words. It’s that feeling of not being in control anymore and while the pain is intense and physical I want it to stop and I and I’m yelling, begging and for it to stop, deep inside I want need him continue and turn it up notch and keep going until I change from yelling into a pillow to crying hard and getting that endorphin release. Sure I have burses and welts but that tranquil feeling of being centered again is wonderful. The pain from the spanking is catalyst to release negative emotions. So, sometimes I do ask for a no-nonsense no safe word spanking with no specified number and keep going until I really sobbing. As I am pushing my jeans and panties down, sometimes I have to remind my boyfriend before the spanking start to not to back off just because I am starting to struggle and to actual start the non stop rapid fire swats with no pauses between whacks until I get that sobbing release. I have to remind him that for this one, he gets to decide when I had enough and I trust him explicitly and I really want this. I have to remind of that because he is always so gentle and has always stopped when I yell out safe word. He's big softy and doesn’t ever want to hurt me. But every one in a while, I need and want a real blistering with his office belt or the flat part of the handle of a bamboo backscratcher from the dollar store he has, or a combination of both.

Anonymous said...

I like a real spanking like the kind that goes on until I am bawling, sobbing and crying.

I finally opened up to boyfriend of 8 month that I like spanking. So we tried a few times. He spanked me until he was comfortable once. Than he spanked me until I safe worded out a few times. He gave me a timed 2 minutes hand spanking a few weeks later which was pretty good. Than I told what I really wanted to try.

Told him I wanted a very long no-nonsense real discipline punishment style spanking until I am crying beyond my ability to make words. I want no safe word, no time limit, no swat limit, no protection absolutely bare ass and no warm up this time. I told him I want to try to experience the thrill and adrenaline rush of making the choice to submit to it and to see if I can will myself to do. I just wanted to be held afterwards. He was very reluctant at first and we talked about it for days. I asked him for the rapid fire hard and fast style whacks but not at beginning. I wanted him to start off slower and build up so that that the spanking last longer. At first he wasn’t wanting to because he was concerned welts and bruises. After telling him that I expected that. Its still took him over week before he realized I was serious. He finally decided to give it a try.

We had to wait for his roommate to leave for the weekend like he planned to do. We got to his place. I pushed my jeans and panties all the down to my knees. He put me over his lap started spanking me with his hand really hard for a really long time. He let me up and I did that post spanking hop. Stiffened up, flew my hands over my ass as I pushed my hips forward and began rubbing frantically as I was hoping up and down. I was far from crying but I sure was fussing because that was the hardest and longest hand spanking I had ever got. After I calmed down enough stay in one place. He went to his room and came back with a pillow. He handed it to me and than pulled off he leather thin office belt doubled it half and asked me. “Ok, are you sure, no safe word, no time limit and no swat limit?” I respond with a yes. “Ok, that means I decide when this whippin stops not you, you sure that’s what you want, a belt thrashing until you are crying so hard you can’t make out words?”

There I was jeans and panties down to ankles now. As I was still rubbing I looked directly into his eyes, I shuffled over and gently put my arms around him and hugged him. I kissed him ever so gently and I and said, “Yes, please, I really do want to try this. So please don’t hold back but just start of slowly before you tear into me with those rapid fire ones ok?” “You'll get quit a few before I finish you off. Remember, your safe word is nullified the moment you lay over couch.

I laid over the arm of the couch sweezed his bed pillow like a teddy bear. He started in hard and continuous about one whack per second and it just seem to go on and on. I was fussing and yelling and kicking quite a bit every time the belt came down. Than right no where he was tore into my ass really fast. It took my breath away. I shoved my face I to my pillow and started biting it trying to muffle my screaming. He wasn't stopping, instinctively I tried shouting my safe word but he ignored it and he kept whacking away. I was kicking and screaming and it went on and on. I don’t know how long it lasted but I finally broke into sobbing but he still kept whipping my ass hard and fast. When he stopped I was bawling so hard I was hiccup crying and my eyes were all puffy and stinging as tears were flowing and my noise was running. I just laid there sobbing. I couldn’t believe I was actually able to will myself to accept it. Its was pure release and he held me until I calmed down and afterwards I felt so tranquil and centered. I thanked him for giving me what I asked for.

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

Ok, need some input. My boyfriend and I have been together about year. We've been into spanking the past 4 months up till now, its only been fun, erotic. Now my Jason has been doing more reading and thinks I could use some discipline in my life because I tends to reckless and I'm sometimes pretty head strong. I love and love and trust him explicitly. He brought of the 4 D's of D&D to start with. I can't really disagree with him either on a few things. I have a "leather butt" he can smack me with almost anything and it doesn't phase me. We have a safe word, I use it all the time to get out it when it starts to sting a little. I'm a little controlling sometimes.

But even than he feels like it been plenty because I have such a high pain talerence but he get absolutely no reaction from me. One time when he tried to give me 60 swats and lay into me pretty good when we were playing. We always have a specific number. I just hold out until it over. That time it was only determination because he was going to whack me 60 times with his belt nice, slow like I told him too, but it didn't phrase me, I safe worded out at 40. I think he's getting frustrated somhow. But as we were disussing discipline spanking he suggested as a few things those site told him. Now I'm spooked. Theory and reality clashing here. He suggested I give up my safe word for discipline spankings and no no specified swats. But if I do that, I wouldn't know how many I would getting and I wouldn't have a word to stop it. That scary, I wouldn't be in control anymore. Does this make any sense. I mean, I want this but what he's suggesting would make it a real spanking that might really hurt.

My question is for discipline spankings does anyone else have these choices removed for discipline spankings. He is also suggesting no warm up for discipline. This disciple this thing is now getting out of control don't you ladies think? In a discipline agreement is this normal? For discipline spanking, no safe word, no specified number of swats and no warm up? Are discipline agreements really really like this?

Anonymous said...

Here are some good spanking stories you might want to read

Story 1: Spanking Friend and Neighbor http://www.otd-memories.com/spanking_memories/my-friend-and-neighbor

Story 2: Spanking Engagment http://www.saxon-web.co.uk/fiction/htm/novels/engagement/index.shtml#.V1dILC_D-bN

Story 3: Spanking Contest http://www.spanko.net/spanking_forums/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=3262

Bob Stewart said...

My first spanking was from my girlfriends father over his knee on my bare bottom I found I enjoyed it and it left me with a standing penis a little while later he started putting his big penis in my bottom

Bob Stewart said...

My first spanking was from my girlfriends father over his knee on my bare bottom I found I enjoyed it and it made my penis stand later he put his big penis up my bottom

Anonymous said...

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